33岁生日为什么要躲,49岁生日为什么要大办
最后更新 :2021.11.30
33岁生日为什么要躲
正文翻译 翻译:龙腾 http://www.ltaa翻译:yjl0518 请注明出处Our birthday comes around once a year. It’s a day that marks another year we have lived, another year we have experienced. Some of us see it as day to celebrate.Some of us see it as a day to not celebrate我们每年过一次生日,这一天标志着我们又过了一年,又长了一岁。我们中的一些人把它看作是庆祝的日子。而另一些人认为这是一个不值得庆祝的日子。
For those of us who have reason to not celebrate our birthday and don’t want a fuss on this day, we might not shout from the rooftops about turning a year older. We might even go to great lengths to avoid drawing attention to our birthday in a time where many think you should be entitled to some special treat.对于我们这些不想庆祝自己的生日、也不想在这一天大惊小怪的人来说,我们可能不会在屋顶上大喊要变老一岁。在很多人认为你应该在这一天享受一些特殊待遇的时候,我们甚至可能会竭尽全力避免引起别人对我们生日的注意。Celebrating my birthday and having anywhere near a big birthday bash is not something up my alley. As I’ve gotten older I’ve become more reserved about celebrating my birthday, these days no more wanting a party (never had a party anyway) or some kind of celebration. In fact, I try to avoid any kind of birthday surprise someone might pull on me.庆祝我的生日,或者在任何地方举行一个大型的生日聚会都不是我的强项。随着年龄的增长,我越来越不愿意庆祝自己的生日,这些天我不再想要一个派对(反正也从来没有派对过)或某种形式的庆祝。事实上,我尽量避免可能会有人带给我的任何形式的生日惊喜。Here are some ways to avoid celebrating your birthday and avoid someone throwing you a surprise birthday party, and keeping your birthday on the down low.这里有一些可以避免庆祝你的生日,避免有人为你举办一个惊喜的生日派对,让你的生日保持低调。
2. Avoid making special plans2.避免制定特别的计划To keep your birthday quiet, try not to make any special birthday plans involving others. In the days leading up to your birthday, friends and family might invite you out to celebrate your special day.为了让你在生日那天清净下来,尽量不要制定任何特别的生日计划。在你生日的前几天,你的朋友和家人可能会邀请你出去庆祝你的生日。Your nice friends and family might want to catch up with you on this day to wish you well over a meal and a few drinks. Or they might say they want to catch up with you on your birthday, take you out and then you find yourself front and centre of a very public, very crowded surprise birthday party.你的好朋友和家人可能想在这一天叫上你,和你吃顿饭,喝几杯酒。或者他们可能会说,他们想在你生日那天叫上你,带你出去,然后你会发现自己出现在一个非常公开、非常拥挤的生日惊喜派对的中心。3. Hermit and shell3.在生日那天躲起来
5. Keep people guessing5.让人们不断猜测你的生日日期Don’t mention your birthday or confirm it so as to keep it under wraps. When someone asks you when your birthday is, perhaps stare them right in the face, put on your best poker face and don’t give an answer. Stay silent and keep staring.不要提及你的生日或者确认这件事,这样才能保密。当有人问你生日是什么时候时,直视他们的眼睛,摆出你的扑克脸,不要给出答案。保持沉默,继续盯着他们看。One time someone wanted to know my birthday and managed to narrow it down to the correct month. So I got him to play the guessing game and you would think he would eventually get it. He didn’t.有一次,有人想知道我的生日,并设法将范围缩小到了正确的月份。所以我就让他玩猜谜游戏,他会认为他最终会得到正确答案,但其实他没有。6. Let others know you don’t want a fuss6.让别人知道你不想大肆庆祝The most direct way to avoid a fuss or celebration around your birthday is to say so. Be direct with others around you, out and about with it, insisting on no big scale birthday party and no ‘Happy Birthday’ singing. You could be even more direct and let family and friends know how you want to and are going to spend the day.避免在你生日那天大肆庆祝的最直接的就是说出来。与你周围的人直接说,然后离开,坚持不要举办大型生日派对,也不要唱生日歌。你可以更直接地让家人和朋友知道你想怎样度过这一天。Each year my family are pretty keen on celebrating my birthday, buying a cake and singing me the song. After putting up with that for many years (even intoyears), I insisted no more song. Finally one year my family decided to drop the song but not the cake and continue to serve it up.每年我的家人都非常热衷于为我庆祝生日,买蛋糕,为我唱生日歌。在忍受了许多年(甚至到了成年)之后,我坚持不再唱生日歌了。终于有一年,我的家人决定不唱这首歌,但是仍然继续把蛋糕端上桌。The notion of the ‘birthday effect’ has been proposed. Also known as the birthday blues, there has been research suggesting an individual’s likelihood of death seems to increase around their birthday. While some Swiss researchers from the University of Zurich suggests you are 14% more likely to die on your birthday than on any other day of the year, there is no conclusive evidence. Usually when it comes to birthday and celebrations, one is more likely to go out and have a good time, perhaps drive home after a few drinks or stay out late on the streets running into trouble or being trouble.有人提出了“生日效应”的概念,也被称为生日忧郁症。有研究表明似乎一个人死亡的可能性在他们的生日前后会增加。一些 苏黎世大学的瑞士研究人员认为,比起一年中的其他任何一天,你在生日那天死亡的可能性要高出14%,但是还没有确凿的证据。通常在生日的庆祝活动上,人们更愿意出去玩一玩,也许喝了几杯酒就开车回家,但也可能在街上玩到很晚惹上麻烦,或者制造麻烦。
Do you try to avoid celebrating your birthday?你是否也在尽量避免过生日呢?
评论翻译 翻译:龙腾 http://www.ltaa翻译:yjl0518 请注明出处AnneI laughed, because I never had to avoid my birthday. The calendar took care of it for me. My birthday is three days before Christmas, and people are too busy to notice in any annoying way. It’s good that you have gotten your celebration under control.哈哈,我从来不用逃避我的生日,因为日历帮我搞定了。我的生日离圣诞节只有三天,人们忙得没时间注意到这些烦人的事情。所以你就可以把你的生日庆祝活动控制住了,这是件好事。BelaMy huand has a similar story with his birthday just after Christmas. 我的丈夫也差不多,他的生日就在圣诞节后。Mabel Kwongonyour birthday three days before Christmas! It’s that time of the year where everyone is busy making Christmas lunch and family gathering arrangements. I’ve heard about many people whose birthday falls around Christmas, that it’s celebrated along with Christmas and their Christmas gifts are their birthday gifts ?? Hope you enjoy your birthday every year ??你的生日离圣诞节只有三天!每年的这个时候,大家都在忙着准备圣诞午餐和家庭聚会。我听说很多人的生日都是在圣诞节前后,他们的圣诞礼物就是生日礼物,祝你每年生日快乐。
Mabel KwongLike you, I’m not a big party person and find a lot of nice feelings from quieter times. It is very proactive of you to organise things on occasion, and it get be a bit of an effort get people in one place.Bit early but Happy Birthday to you. Hope this year is a good one for you and may you enjoy your day later this month 和你一样,我不是一个喜欢聚会的人,在更安静的时候,我会找到很多美好的感觉。偶尔组织一些事情是非常好的,而且让人们聚集在一个地方也需要一点努力。提前祝你生日快乐。希望今年对你来说是个好日子,愿你在这个月晚些时候的生日过得愉快。Writing to FreedomI’m glad my idea resonated with you Mabel. Maybe we’ll both have quiet, intimate gatherings for our birthday! Thanks for the birthday wishes. 我很高兴我的想法和你产生了共鸣,Mabel。也许我们的生日会有个安静且私密的聚会!谢谢你的生日祝福。AutumnAshboughI used to like a big fuss on my birthday. Now I’m like you — I never put it on social media.But someone in my enormous family always remembers, and posts “Happy Birthday” on my social media accounts and then everyone else joins in and ignoring my birthday is a total failure.I get a little closer to escaping it every year, though.我过去喜欢在生日那天大肆庆祝。现在我和你一样,我从来不把它放在社交媒体上。但是在我的大家庭中,总有人记得在我的社交媒体账号上发布“生日快乐”,然后其他人都会加入进来,企图让别人忽略我的生日是基本不可能的。不过,每年我都离摆脱这种生活更近了一步。Mabel KwongWhen you’ve got an enormous family, chances are at least one of them will know everyone’s birthday. And chances are they are the kind who likes throwing a good party that you can’t escape from. But I take your word for it that you are closer to escaping all this birthday attention ??当你有一个庞大的家庭时,他们中至少有一个人知道每个人的生日。他们很有可能是那种喜欢举办一个你无法逃避的派对的人。但是我相信,你离不被 的生日越来越近了。PriorThe way people celebrate or do not choose to (as you write about here) can vary greatly.And for me – I usually keep it low key – going to the beach and maybe out to dinner would be a ten out of ten kinda day.人们庆祝或不庆祝的方式有很大的不同(正如你在这里写到的)。对我来说,我通常保持低调,十有八九是去海滩,或者出去吃晚餐。Mabel KwongSome people I’ve encountered celebrate their birthday all month long. That is, going out with different groups of friends in the weeks leading up to and after their birthday. Nothing wrong with wanting to spend time with others, but then there are others who will keep bring up their birthday again and again just because.我遇到的一些人整月都在庆祝他们的生日。也就是说,在生日前后的几个星期里,和不同的朋友们一起出去玩。想要花时间和别人在一起并没有错,但是不能仅仅是因为其他人一次又一次地提起他们的生日。PriorAnd I do not know any that eelebrate the whole month – but know some that talk about it and plan for that long- I get that “milestone” birthdays can be a unique category (and again it depends on the person) but some overdo it before hand and then on that day.我不知道有哪个人会一整个月都在庆祝生日,但我知道有些人会谈论这个问题,并计划了很长时间。我知道能得到一个“里程碑式”的生日是一种独特的体验,但有些人做过头了。
Mabel KwongHappy belated birthday to your hubby! It must be birthday season. It sounds like he is a popular guy ?? So agree it seems people prefer celebrating other people’s birthdays and less so their own.祝你老公生日快乐!现在大家都在扎堆过生日。听起来他是个很受欢迎的人。所以我们都同意似乎人们更喜欢庆祝别人的生日,而不是自己的生日。whippetwisdomAn interesting post Mabel and I’ve never wanted a big fuss on my birthday either. These days my huand and I prefer to spend our birthdays taking the day off, hiking in the hills with our dogs and bringing a picnic with some nice rustic food. We are both grateful we’re still around to celebrate these moments together and that has made it more meaningful for us too ??一个有趣的帖子,Mabel和我也从来不想在我的生日上大肆庆祝。这些日子,我和我的丈夫更喜欢在我们的生日那天休息一天,和我们的狗在山上徒步旅行,带着一些美味的乡村食物来野餐。我们都很感激我们仍然在一起庆祝这些时刻,这对我们来说更有意义。Mabel KwongSo lovely to hear you and your huand spend your birthday with each other and the dogs, appreciating each other and sharing simple winning moments. Meaningful is indeed simple. Wishing you well into the weekend很高兴听到你和你的丈夫和你的狗狗一起度过你们的生日,彼此感激,分享成功时刻。很简单却很有意义。祝你周末过得愉快。CollineIn my family we celebrate birthdays by going out to dinner en famille – that is me, my huand, and the children. We don’t make a big fuss and, to be honest, the people I work with and acquaintances do know know the date I was born.在我们家,我们全家出去吃饭庆祝生日,也就是我、我的丈夫和孩子们。我们不会大肆庆祝,说实话,我的同事和熟人都知道我的出生日期。Mabel KwongSounds like a lovely way to celebrate birthdays, Colline. Being around with those who are closest to you is a great way.听起来是个很好的庆祝生日的方式,Colline。和你最亲近的人在一起是度过是一个好。Hoarder Comes CleanI hope you have a serene and quiet happy birthday!I hide my birthday too – and these days there’s more than one reason to do that.My favorite way to celebrate is to mark a decade.祝你度过一个宁静祥和的生日!我也会隐藏自己的生日。这样做的理由不止一个。我最喜欢的庆祝方式是做一些有意义的和/或冒险的事情来纪念整十年的生日。arvMabel, let me also share this. A lot of people who would call personally on birthday have started sending message on Whatsapp or FB thereby cutting off personal interaction. These are a few signs of the times we are living in. Mabel,我也分享一下我的经历。许多人在生日那天亲自打给我,开始在Whatsapp或者FB上发送信息,从而切断了现实间的交流。这些都是我们所处时代的一些现象。Mabel KwongOh yes, that is so true, people messaging you as opposed to calling you to wish you well on your birthday. Partly due to the convenience of social media. I guess as times go on, this will be the normal way of wishing Happy Birthday each year.是的,没错,人们会给你发短信,而不是打祝你生日快乐,一部分原因是社交媒体的便利。我想,随着时间的推移,这将是每年祝福生日快乐的正常方式。
Mabel KwongThat’s a good observation, that children and teens are more inclined to celebrate their birthdays. Parties to them are all about fun – as you mentioned, cake, activities, gifts and so on. I guess when we grow older, for many of us birthday celebrations might be the same thing and the novelty or the ‘speciality’ of it wears off.Throwing a birthday party for a kid is hard work. As the parent, you really are a one-man show to organise the cake, venue, activities, gifts ??这是一个很好的观点,儿童和青少年更倾向于庆祝他们的生日。就像你提到的,他们的聚会都是有趣的,蛋糕,活动,礼物等等。我想当我们长大了,对于我们中的许多人来说都是一样的,生日庆祝的新奇感或者特殊性会消失。为孩子举办生日派对是一项艰巨的工作。作为家长,你真的需要一个人去准备蛋糕、场地、活动和礼物。
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